Pastoral Ponderings—Soul Food
Life’s busy at the preacher’s house, especially around special times like Easter. But with my mom visiting, I’ve been making sure we’ve kept breakfast time blocked out, and put everything on hold for a bit to allow for that time of “soul food” together. I couldn’t really tell you how our breakfasts and coffee together might have fed her soul, but it’s been so very important time for me, feeding me in a way that doesn’t happen any other time.
She and Kaz headed out this morning together, though, driving back to her place in FL outside of Jacksonville. My mornings will now get back to their morning quiet—and I’ll be missing that healthy dose of laughter and soul food that only she brings. I was originally intending to write about the soul food that comes from Easter and family time together, but as important as that is, sending the mama off this morning reminded me of that even more touching time with my mom.
So how do you get that kind of soul food? It might be from your quiet breakfasts with some family member or friend who feeds you like that, it could be from a regular phone call with someone you hardly ever see. I think a big part of “the epidemic of loneliness” that we read about, and even experience too often these days, comes from how hard it can be to have that regular time with one who can feed your soul. It certainly doesn’t happen by accident, but by setting protected time aside regularly to allow for that kind of mutual soul nourishment.
So how will I get that kind of regular soul food now that she’s gone home again? The regular phone call will help, but that will likely be much more like making a full meal of vitamin supplements alone, rather than real food! I don’t know—but I do appreciate the little nibbles you share!
Make sure that while you’re taking care of your own soul food needs from nibbles here and there, to the full-fledged feast that you can sometimes find with those special someones in your life—that you all find ways to share the blessings of feeding into others’ lives who you see regularly. Even for those who are not your deep soul friends, make the time to share a bit anyway—and you might find some surprising blessings where you least expect them! — Feeding souls together—Pastor Jim


















